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Memes in the Watson category “/family and relationships/divorce”

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Alan Watts on Aging

When you grow old, something extraordinary begins to happen. Not to your body, which inevitably weakens, but to your awareness. You start to see time not as a road that stretches endlessly ahead, but as a circle closing in on itself. You realize that all the things you once thought mattered, possessions, opinions…

The Explore VS Exploit Problem

In English, the words “explore” and “exploit” come loaded with completely opposite connotations. But to a computer scientist, these words have much more specific and neutral meanings. Simply put, exploration is gathering information, and exploitation is using the information you have to get a known good result. [...]…

Letting Go of Dreams

Our culture lionises grit and perseverance, but the ability to be adaptable and flexible, and pivot to new opportunities, is just as important. The common phenomenon of ‘goal shielding’ puts us at risk of persevering for too long with unobtainable dreams, though there is no surefire way to make the right decision on…

The Myth of the Idealic Past

Imagine that it is 1800, somewhere in Western Europe or eastern North America. The family is gathering around the hearth in the simple timber-framed house. Father reads aloud from the Bible while mother prepares to dish out a stew of beef and onions. The baby boy is being comforted by one of his sisters and the eldest…